From now onwards, I'll try to write on things related to the events when Ky passed away.
I received lots of condolences personally from individuals who attended the funerals and also sms I received from all over. On Saturday itself, I've received almost hundreds of smses but I didn't retrieve them until the next day when I was a bit free.
Below are some of the smses that I received and I have kept. For rememberance sake, I write them down here and then I can delete it from my HP. The inbox is already full and have no more space for incoming smses. Some of these people I had not known personnaly but they knew us in some places and functions. These will be part of my memories and something that I can ponder on.
Dear Azam, Please accept our sincere condolence for the loss of Rokiah. Her beautiful spirits will always live in our hearts. Ivan & Cassandra (Singapore)
Salam Azam. Roslan here. Just heard from Fathiah & Rohana. Dina & I offer our condolences. Sabar banyak2 and be strong my friends especially for your kids. If there is any consolation, she has has gone to meet our creator, Allah s.a.w. Moga2 roh arwah di cucuri rahmat dan diletakkan di kalangan solehin. Amin. Roslan (Kota Kinabalu)
Hi Azam. We are sorry to hear Rokiah has left us. She'll be in good hands. Do take care yourself and your children and be strong. They need you more now. Our sincere condolences to you and your family. Cliff & Shirley (Singapore)
Azam. Fathiah just informed us of Ky's passing. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Ky was a wonderful role model and she'll always lives in our hearts. Love and light. Brigid & Wan Zainal (Singapore)
Takziah dari kami sekeluarga. Kami turut bersedih bersama kamu, harap kamu bersabar dan redha dankami berdoa semoga Allah memberi rahmat keatas roh nya. Abg De (Labuan)
We are sorry to hear about your loss. Regards. Kumar & Janet (Singapore)
Salam En Azam. Takziah dari Hairi sekeluarga. Moga rohnya dicucuri rahmat. Amin. Hairi (my staff Proton Shah Alam)
Takziah dari kami sekeluarga. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmatnya. Azlan Husen (ex-colleague Kajang)
Assalamualaikum Azam. Salam takziah kepada keluarga Allahyarhamah Rokiah atas pemergiannya yg tak diduga. Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat subhannallahtaalah. Hassan & Liza (Singapore)
My Takziah to Azam & your kids for the loss of a wife and a mother. I will always remember Ky as the most positive, bright, energetic and can-do person. That's why Ky with the blessed of Allah lasted this long. She is with Allah now and let's pray for her. Ashraf & family.
Assalamulaikum. Takziah & harap bersabar. Azman Md Nor (PPC Proton)
Please accept my deepest condolence for your great loss of your wife Ky. Semoga roh Ky dicucuri rahmat. Let me know if I can help you in any way.Al Fathihah. Sam (old friend)
Our deepest symphaties & heartfelt condolences to you & your family. May her soul rest in peace. Joan & Jerry (Kota Kinabalu)
Takziah dari saya dan Keluarga serta seluruh pegawai dan anggota tentera. Doa kami mengiringi beliau. Banyak bersabar dan tenang. Saya tak hadir kerana sekarang berada diluar kena siapkan tugas nak kena submit monday. Maaf. Mejar Zainal (Ky's ex-military colleague)
I'm saddened by the news. Be tough my friend. Andak Kamarulzaman (my best friend).
Takziah. Wak Zamani
Hi Azam. Our condolences to you and your family for the loss of your wife. She has been an inspiration to us. David & Rhu Min (Singapore)
Takziah. Semoga roh Ky dicucuri rajmat Allah. Banyakkan doa dan bersabar. Alfatihah. Azivik
Azam. My deepest condolences to you and family on Ky's passing. Oy Len
Hi Azam. We are thinking of you and family during this difficult time. Take care and God bless you. May you find peace. You and Ky are very special to us. Regards. Chin Kuan & Terry (Subang Jaya)
Our condolences on demise of your beloved wife Rokiah. God blkess her soul. Patricia Don Chowdhurie (Singapore)
Innalillahi wa-innailahi raajiun. Takziah dari kami sekeluarga. Al Fatihah. Tifli (my ex-boss) (Shah Alam)
Assalamualaikum Azam. Salam takziah diatas pemergian Allahyarhamah Rokiah. Kami berdoa agar rohnya berada dikalangan solihin. Salam dari Ramzi, Kuyah & famili.(This couple went to Umrah together with us)
Takziah semoga rohnya di redhai Allah. Noh (Proton)
Hi Azam. Takziah from both of us. So sorry to hear about it. Kami doakan semoga roh allahyarhamah dirahmati Allah sentiasa. Dari Marsitah & Mazufi (ex-officemate)
Sorry to hear the sad news. My deepest condolence to you and your family. My thought are with you although I am not there with you. Al Fatihah. Wan Faridah (current officemate)
Moga dia ditempatkan di kalangan orang yang soleh. Amin. Ezzah Aziz Fawzy (TV3) (Ky's ex-schoolmate and also close friend)
Dear Azam. Ucapan takziah kepada saudara sekeluarga atas permergian isteri tersayang. Moga rohnya dicucuri rahmat Allah s.w.t. Ikhlas dari Zaid (MD's office)
Azam. Takziah atas kembalinya isteri kerahmahtullah. Allahyang maha penyayang. Kita doakan kebaikan semuanya. Datuk Maruan (ex-boss)
Salam Azam. Takziah atas pemerghian wife you. Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat dan bersama-sama dengan para shuhadah. Amin. Norbi (ICT Proton)
Assalamulaikum. Takziah atas kembalinya ke rahmahtullah isteri tuan. Semoga di rahmati Allah dan beserta orang yang solehah. Amin. Khari & keluarga
May we offer our deepest condolences to you and your family. We share your sorrow. James & Mary (Johor Bharu)
Saya ucapkan takziah semoga rohnya didalam golongan solehah. Saya masih teringat sewaktu umrah bersama. Maaf tak dapat ziarah malam ni. Norhalim Sirome (Proton)
Innalillah wainna illahi rojiun. Semoga Allah menempatkan rohnya bersama para shuhadah dan solehin. Take care. Amir & Sherilla (Subang Jaya)
Takziah bos. Maaf tak dapat hadir. Masih di Pahang. Insyaallha saya singgah esok. En Haris & kawan-kawan lain kirim salam. Azlee (ex-office colleage).
Just heard the news about Ky. Innalillah wainna illahi rojiun. You have done the best you could for her. Wan Nadzri (Proton)
Dear Azam. We are deeply sorry to hear about Rokiah's passing. She was a lovely person who touched so many lives. We miss her already. We'llhold you and family our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our deepest sympathy. Farouk & Melati
Takziah diucapkan dan semoga beliau ditempatkan dikalangan orang yang beriman. Alfatihah. Asri & keluarga (Proton Edar)
Azam. I nak ucapkan takziah. Semoga roh arwah di cucuri rahmat dan tempatkan dikalangan orang soleh. Sabar. Aznan (Penang)
My condolence to you and your family. Kamarul (PJ)
Sorry to hear about Rokiah. May she be with all the saint and blessed by God. We trust that you and family are in great health and peace. Love. Yap and Feng Ling (Sabah)
Dear Azam. Deepest condolence. Millan Leong (Terry's father) (Taiping)
Takziah diucapkan diatas pemergian allahyarhamah Ky. Semoga roh allahyarhamah dicucuri rahmatnya. Insyaallah. Syed Hamid & Sharifah Talha.
Shah & I ucap takziah. Nik Aliena (ex-colleague)
The good Lord always knows what is best for us. May he give you and your loved ones the strength to bear this loss. My heartfelt condolences. Helen Mirandah (Johor Bahru)
Innalillah wainna illahi rojiun. Semoga rohnya ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang soleh. Anonymous.
Assalamualaikum. Takziah diatas pemergian orang tersayang kerahmahtullah. Semoga rohnya ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman. Padzil (CBU Logistic Proton)
Innalillahwainna illahirajiun. Semoga rohnya ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang solehah. Ajie & suami (ex-colleague and blogger)
Assalamualaikum. Semoga abang Azam dan sekeluarga tabah menerima ujian yang besar dari Allah. Saya doakan semoga roh Allahyarhamah Puan Rokiah tergolong orang-orang yang beriman. Amin. Ustaz Habib (ustaz who used to teach my children Al-Quran) (Melaka)
Assalamualaikum Azam. Takziah saya ucapkan. Semoga rohnya diberkati Allah. Johari Ismail (GM PPC, Proton)
Just heard the sad news. Ucapkan takziah kepada saudara Azam dan keluarga. Semoga tabah dan kuat semangat. Al Fathihah. Laila (CPD Proton)
Azam. My Condolences. Sha & Lina
Dearest Azam. Please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of Rokiah. She wil be missed by all those whom she has touched. George & Belinda (Kota Kinabalu)
Our deepest condolence to you and family on the demise of your dear wife Kiky.Gone but not forgetten. Semoga rohnya dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman. Letifah Hj Fathi (WMU Alumni) (Kucing Sarawak)
My deepest sympathies and hearfelt condolences to you on the demise of your beloved wife. Danny Lim Toh (Sabah)
Azam. Salam takziah. Semoga roh Kiky dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman. And may you face this challenge with strength and courage. Lina Atan (WMU Alumni)
En Azam. Takziah dan bersabarlah. Sesungguhnya Allah itu maha mengetahui. Semoga roh nya dicucuri rahmat. Shukri Omar ( PC KD - Proton)
Our deepest sympathies and hearfelt condolences for the bereavement of your dearest wife. May her soul rest in peace. Richard and Mag (Kota Kinabalu)
Assalamualaikum and my deepest condolence to you and familyon Cu's sudden demise. My apology for not being able to come back to KL to visit. Khairy and family (nephew - Kuala Terengganu)
Our condolence. She is my good friend and help me a lot. Al Fatihah. Lt. Kol Kenali (ex-army colleague - Johor Bahru)
Salam. Al Fatihah. En Azam. Takziah dari Kak Tim and family. Redhakan pemergiannya. Allah menyayanginya. Mejar (B) Fatimah. (ex-army colleague)
There is nothing for anyone to pay back. Else we need accountants to keep debts of love etc. Love was always unconditional as Keng Seng received from many too. Ky gave unconditionally even when she was scared. Our spirits met last Saturday and yesterday. She is lovely and so are you. Take time to love yourself and kids. That is so important now. Li Choo (one of Ky's close friend who had been keeping in touch with her)
The above are amongst the messages I received during and after Ky's passing. I couldn't help but tears flow when I read these messages from everywhere. I stood back and thought that these people who have send me condolence messages are people who care for us. These are the people whose lives have would have been touched by Ky in one way or another. If not, I don't think that they would think of us or even if they knew of Ky's passing, they wouldn't care anyway. I guess my wife, Ky had touched many people's lives.